Dating for dumbies

09 Sep

I think most men will be attracted to an outgoing larger sixed woman and a thinner girl who is a walflower ;) ~workout25 Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I dunno about the buff, health-conscious guys on PT, but I (female) go around town with a (female) friend who is 150# overweight, and guys just DROOL after her when they think no one sees them. I also went out for a while with a guy who was interested in much older women.

What i was meaning to say, was i personally think its about confidence!

It has been created to combat the exact boredom I talk about…that experienced by women in three-year or longer monogamous relationships. But for women who’ve been with their partners between one and four years, a dive begins — and continues, leaving male desire far higher. This is a corollary to another concept I’ve explained for years: The more often you see a woman, the faster she will become sexually bored with you.

They just assume it’s because the husbands are being jerks, or they’re “stressed”, or “raising kids” or whatever. Then you’ll get pissed off and after much chaos, get divorced, then you’ll post on my blog or forum about how right I was and how you should have listened to me. “He’ll move closer to me in bed, or put his arm around me, or rub my back.”She willed herself not to refuse him. Because I love happiness, I like my women to be horny for me. Moving in with a woman would eventually, not immediately but eventually, start to degrade that. These Societally Programmed scientists don’t want to admit what’s really going on… But as a scientist you already knew that, didn’t you?It’s always nice when science reinforces the things I’ve been saying for years.It happens so often these days I’ve pretty much stopped reporting it. Dietrich Klusmann, a psychologist at the University of Hamburg-Eppendorf in Germany, has provided a glimpse into the bedrooms of longtime couples.” “Low.” This was no different from Linneah’s reply at the trial’s outset two months before. Later, after her appointment, she told me that in fact she has orgasms pretty much every time she and her husband have sex — that wasn’t the problem. She’s been with her husband in a monogamous relationship for longer than three years. If you expect any different, you’re an idiot deluded by your own Disney desires. ” Now before you start calling my ex-wife a bitch, let me repeat it yet again: This is normal. This is how women have been biologically wired to behave for hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. Some of you have asked me why I have not moved in with a woman after all these years. Others of you have expressed amazement and/or disbelief that many women in my life can still remain very horny for me after four or five years of consistent dating and sex, even when they know I’m out fucking other women.“When your partner initiated sexual activity over the past eight weeks, did you show avoidance behavior? ” “Yes.” Linneah’s voice lurched louder; she laughed; it was a relief to talk bluntly. “There’s something that’s stopping me from wanting it,” she said. She still loves him, and her body works fine, but she no longer is sexually attracted to him. When they were dating and out with other couples, Linneah would think, “I just want to get home with him, I just want to get home with him,” she recalled. Around the arrival of their second child in 2004, something insidious crept in, partly fatigue but partly something else that she couldn’t name. So it becomes a normal and accepted thing within her social circle. Back when I was married, my wife at the time had three girlfriends who had also been married longer than three years, and all three of them constantly reported to her how rarely they had sex with their husbands. Just like the woman in the article, there is usually no malice behind it. Finally, the article gets to the core of the matter… It’s because I haven’t ever moved in with any of these women.We try to provide appropriate credit to the sources but we sometimes find some good fundraising ideas in bulletin board messages that do not fully identify the author so we go with what we have.If you find that a narrative originated from you and credit is not adequately shown, please send us an email.In fact one of them is a friend of mine and he flat out stated that he preferred a woman who (and I remember almost exactly what he said because it wowed me so much considering the types of girls he always dates lol) said "If it were up to me I'd rather have a woman who's a size 18 and comfortable with herself than one who is a size 6 and always obsessing about her weight." So maybe it's as much about self confidence for some men as it is about the weight issue.I think everyone has their specific likes and dislikes; it's not wrong or right..just is. What about the song about a big butt woman1 everyone has differnt taste.) I think that while guys don't like to admit when they have non-mainstream tastes, there are a significant number out there who find a broad spectrum of women attractive or who have fetishes for particular things that others might find unattractive.Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I know men who are attracted to heavier women who hide the fact because they get ribbed by their buddies.