Dating for the shy guy

14 Nov

If you struggle to meet or attract women, this is the program for you.

Think your natural-born bashful tendencies are keeping you single? While you may sometimes feel anxious, uncertain, and/or insecure when it comes to dating, the truth is that the right kind of woman will appreciate your unassuming ways. If you’re a shy guy, you’ll need to start projecting self-confidence when dealing with women, even if you don’t fully feel it yet.

If the idea of approaching a woman you don’t know feels overwhelming, take it slow.

Practice making and maintaining eye contact with a member of the opposite sex every day for a week.

For chronically shy guys, every girl is that little red-haired girl. While we can't cure shyness in five easy lessons, we can give you five tips for overcoming your inner Charlie Brown -- five strategies to boost your confidence.

Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception.

As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.

Any interaction can go really well or really poorly. Find people who share those interests and join up with them. There’s nothing wrong with it, as long as you don’t let it control you and hinder your quality of life.Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.Finding and approaching women as a shy guy is incredibly difficult.I can count on one hand the number of girls I actually approached to ask out on a date in high school.The following week, add a friendly smile to your efforts. It’s true what they say — practice makes perfect, so the more you put these new behaviors into practice, the more natural they’ll become.By the time you meet someone amazing, you’ll be ready, willing, and able to confidently and comfortably ask her out.The biggest hurdle for the shy guy is just getting out there and meeting people.Even if you force yourself to go to a party or other social event, you have no idea what to say or do. Somehow along the way, grownups have to stop being shy. I’ve learned a lot since starting this blog about how to meet people and how to start a relationship. As an adult, everyone that didn’t know me thought I was a jerk because I didn’t go out of my way to make friends. If you are a shy guy, you know how hard it is dating, let alone even finding a woman to date.