Dating friends of your ex

26 Jan

If they are truly IN LOVE, there's nothing you can really do about it.Otherwise, it's kind of a dick move, there's tons of girls out there, why would they choose to date your ex out of everyone.It seems like you chose a relationship with him over her, and there isn’t any going back.In high school, I remember an unspoken rule about dating was that you absolutely could never date a friend of your ex no matter what. Don’t ignore your feelings, they’re valid I met a guy I really liked about seven months after I’d had my heart broken, and was so excited to finally feel interested in someone again, but then discovered he was friends with the heartbreaker. Would it seem like I was trying to “stick it” to the guy who broke up with me? It didn’t seem worth the hassle, so I started avoiding the new guy for awhile, even though I didn’t want to.– /u/GMSaaron My ex is pretty cool, I'd be happy for him.

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Fast forward a few months, and you run into his friend.

Am I the bad person for doing what I did even though I was honest? Signed, Ellie Dear Ellie, Being honest about wanting to date your friend’s ex was better than going behind her back but you haven’t mentioned whether or not she gave you the go ahead once you told her.

If you didn’t want to jeopardize the friendship, you should have her—and respected her wishes.

“We’re adults, what are you going to do about it.” And he was right.

I couldn’t worry about what other people MIGHT think, I could just be upfront.