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Any one who wants to keep their marriage together would feel hurt by what he's doing. Usually there are a lot of things that cause problems and I won't pretend to know all of what plagues your marriage.

But, if I were you I would just find out how serious it all is.

After a huge argument he said he was looking at porn and crashed his computer because he knew I’d be upset.

We had our 1st proper massive fight in the whole 5 years we have been together and he promised he would never hurt me again and that I am his rock, his best friend, his soul mate and the love of his life and he was being inconsiderate of my feelings .

Unless he informed you or gave you the chance to participate in these activities, it was not an honest act on his part.Since then, I have caught him on porn sites, dating sites, F*ckbook, live porn shows, and this & that.I have seen “[Cams dot com]”on our bank records and I asked him about it. I didn’t believe it so I checked it out and came to find out it was live porn chat he was paying for! One night I took him out with friends and wanted to go home to have “us time,” but he said he didn’t feel like it.He also brushed off a chance to set the record straight without lying.Second, there's the issue of expectations you two have not discussed.I couldn’t trust him around our daughter because his addiction as calls it, was so bad! ”He has been really distant lately, coming home from work and getting directly in the shower.He says he is too tired to have sex when I want to or he just flat out says “no! Dear Confused & Hurt, First and foremost, any man that lays a hand on a pregnant woman is no respectable man. Getting defensive is a good indication you are not being told the truth.I couldn’t trust him and I still can’t trust him because I’ve caught him on it multiple times after.Three days after I had our daughter, he was on two of his ex girlfriends’ Facebook pages! He thinks I overreact but I don’t because it hurts me! Hides his phone whenever someone calls and when I ask who it is, he says “don’t worry about it, you’re too nosy!If he feels self-conscious about himself, he could be looking at these sites not to have affairs, but to boost his own self confidence. OH, but as a side note..he's saying that he's no longer turned on by you, have you asked him the age old question: "what do you need from me to be good enough? Sometimes him just writing a formal paper list is all it takes for him to realize he's being a little too anal.Q: I made the mistake of clicking on a little email window that popped up on my husband's computer.